Gifts for Someone Who Is Grieving at Christmas
For people who have lost someone, the holidays can be the hardest time of year. Empty chairs, old traditions, and the pressure to feel merry can make grief heavier. If someone you love is grieving this Christmas, a gentle gift and your presence can mean more than you know.
Psalm 34:18: "The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart."
Comfort gifts
- A soft blanket for hard days: blankets.
- A candle to light in memory of their loved one: Christian candles.
- A night light for long nights: night lights.
- A cozy hoodie that feels like a hug.
Gifts of hope
- The Never Left Nor Forsaken Collection: a reminder that God is still near.
- A journal for writing memories, prayers, or letters to their loved one: journals.
- A memorial ornament or keepsake with their loved one's name.
For grieving children
A soft Jesus-gram teddy bear can be something comforting to hold, and a kids' night light can help at bedtime.
More than a gift
- Say their loved one's name. Many grieving people long to hear it.
- Invite them, and don't be offended if they say no.
- Offer practical help: wrapping gifts, cooking, or decorating.
- Check in on hard days, like the anniversary, birthday, and Christmas morning.
- Pray for them, and let them know you are.
A card message idea
"I'm thinking of you and remembering [name] this Christmas. I'm praying God's comfort over you, and I'm here whenever you need me."
More: Missing Someone in Heaven: A Devotional for Grieving Hearts and How to Support a Friend Who Is Grieving.



