Wills, Guardianship, and Leaving a Legacy

Most people don't like thinking about death, and many put off making a will. But planning ahead is one of the most loving things you can do for your family. It protects your children, reduces stress during an already painful time, and lets you leave a legacy that reflects your faith.

Set thine house in order

When King Hezekiah was gravely ill, the prophet Isaiah told him: "Set thine house in order" (Isaiah 38:1). God later extended Hezekiah's life, but the principle remains: wise people prepare.

Proverbs 13:22: "A good man leaveth an inheritance to his children's children."

Why a will matters

• Protects your children: You choose who would raise them if you can't.
• Reduces family conflict: Clear wishes prevent arguments.
• Directs your resources: Including gifts to your church or ministries.
• Eases the burden: Your loved ones won't have to guess.

What to include in your planning

• A will naming beneficiaries and an executor.
• Guardians for minor children. Choose people who share your values and faith.
• Beneficiary designations on retirement accounts and life insurance (check that they're up to date).
• A power of attorney for financial decisions if you can't make them.
• A healthcare directive sharing your medical wishes.
• Life insurance, especially if others depend on your income.
• A document list showing where important papers and accounts are.

Leave a spiritual legacy

Consider writing a "legacy letter" to your family: your faith story, what God has taught you, your hopes and prayers for them, and the verses that carried you. It may become their most treasured inheritance.

2 Timothy 4:7: "I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith."

Talk about it

Share your plans with your family and the people you've named. Keep documents updated after major life changes like marriage, divorce, births, or moves.

Write your legacy letter and keep your document list in a journal.

This article offers general information, not legal advice. Laws vary by state, so consult an estate planning attorney.

A prayer

Lord, our days are in Your hands. Help me set my house in order, protect my family, and leave a legacy of faith. Let my life and my planning point those I love to You. Amen.