Pastor Burnout: When the Shepherd Needs Rest

Sermons every week. Hospital visits. Funerals, weddings, counseling, budgets, building repairs, criticism, and the 10 p.m. phone call. Many pastors and ministry leaders are running on empty, and few people in their church know it.

Signs of ministry burnout

  • Dreading Sundays, or Monday mornings
  • Feeling numb in prayer and in preaching
  • Irritability with your family or congregation
  • Fantasizing about quitting, or about an escape
  • Using food, screens, alcohol or other things to cope
  • Physical symptoms: poor sleep, headaches, constant fatigue

Even Elijah

After calling down fire on Mount Carmel, Elijah ran into the wilderness, sat under a tree, and asked to die (1 Kings 19:4). God’s first response wasn’t correction. It was sleep and food, twice. Then a gentle whisper. Then a new companion, Elisha. God cares for exhausted servants.

Jesus built in rest

“Come ye yourselves apart into a desert place, and rest a while” (Mark 6:31). Jesus withdrew to pray even while needs remained (Luke 5:16). Rest isn’t abandoning your flock. It’s how you stay faithful to them.

What helps

  • A real Sabbath every week, protected.
  • A sabbatical after several years of service, if your church can provide one.
  • Delegation: Moses’ father-in-law told him, “Thou wilt surely wear away… thou art not able to perform it thyself alone” (Exodus 18:18).
  • Counseling outside your church.
  • A peer group of pastors who understand.
  • Your own health: sleep, exercise, and a physical with your doctor.

A prayer

“Lord, I’ve been pouring out with nothing coming in. Restore my soul. Teach me to rest without guilt. Amen.”

See Shepherd’s Rest and Holy Tired.

If you’re thinking about not wanting to live, please call or text 988 (US). Pastors need help too, and asking is strength.

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