“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”Proverbs 4:23
Before the Vow
For singles, dating couples, and the ones who’ve been “basically married” for five years without the vow.
Dating is a discernment season, not a trial marriage. Its whole purpose is to answer one question: could I make the vow to this person, and could they make it to me? That’s why you’re allowed to walk away in dating; that’s what it’s for. This tool helps you see the person in front of you clearly, sort the red flags from the human stuff, figure out where a long relationship without commitment is actually going, and start the honest conversation. No shame here, whatever your story is.
Built on Proverbs 4:23, 2 Corinthians 6:14, 1 Corinthians 13:4–7, Song of Songs 2:7, Hebrews 13:4, Matthew 7:16 and Ruth 3. Not a substitute for pastoral care or licensed counseling.
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