How to Write a Family Mission Statement
Businesses, schools, and churches often have mission statements. Why not families? A family mission statement is a short description of who your family is, what you value, and how you want to live. It gives everyone a shared vision, and a compass for hard decisions.
Why vision matters
Proverbs 29:18: "Where there is no vision, the people perish."
Habakkuk 2:2: "Write the vision, and make it plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it."
Joshua 24:15: "But as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD."
Joshua's declaration may be the most famous family mission statement in history.
5 simple steps
Step 1: Gather the family. Make it fun, with snacks, paper, and markers. Include kids at every age level.
Step 2: Brainstorm values. Ask:
- What do we want our family to be known for?
- What matters most to us?
- How do we want people to feel in our home?
- How do we want to treat each other?
Write down every word: kindness, faith, honesty, fun, generosity, courage, forgiveness, hospitality.
Step 3: Choose your top 3–5 values.
Step 4: Write a short statement. Keep it short enough for kids to remember.
Step 5: Choose a family verse to anchor it.
Example mission statements
"The [Last Name] family loves God, loves each other, and loves our neighbors. We tell the truth, forgive quickly, laugh often, and serve with joy." (Verse: Mark 12:30–31)
"In our home, we follow Jesus, we are kind, we work hard, and we always have room for one more." (Verse: Joshua 24:15)
"We are a family claimed by God. We live with courage, gratitude, and generosity." (Verse: Isaiah 43:1)
Put it where you'll see it
Display your mission statement and family verse in your home. A custom-looking wooden sign or canvas print with your family verse makes a beautiful daily reminder.
Use it
- Refer to it when making decisions: "Does this fit who we are?"
- Use it in discipline: "In our family, we forgive quickly."
- Revisit it every year, maybe on New Year's Day.
A family prayer
Lord, help our family live out what we believe. Let our home reflect Your love. As for me and my house, we will serve You. Amen.



